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# 答覆志傑關於渴望被體貼關愛的問題

導遊哥哥，我有一個問題：渴望被人體貼、關心和愛護是心中缺少愛的體現嗎？ 要怎樣去超越這種渴求呢？ ——志傑草

答：渴望被人體貼、關心和愛護是人之常情，也是天性使然，與心中是否缺少或充盈愛沒有直接關係，缺少愛的人渴望被人體貼關愛，愛充溢心靈的人同樣也渴望被人體貼關愛。

適時地對體貼關愛的渴望造就一個人美妙的心境，“我住長江頭，君住長江尾，日日思君不見君，共飲長江水”是一種對愛的憧憬渴望，“人有悲歡離合，月有陰晴圓缺，此事古難全。 但願人長久，千里共嬋娟“也同樣是一種對愛的嚮往渴望。

只是在人間，難以找到美滿的關愛，自古情愛傷別離，從來悲歡不離情。 花自飄零水自流，一種相思，兩處閒愁。 此情無計可消除，才下眉頭，卻上心頭。 “渴望被人體貼關愛總給人茶飯不思輾轉反側思緒萬千，是一種淒美的情緒，”問君能有幾多愁，恰似一江春水向東流“，”關關雎鸠恨悠悠“啊！

幾多相思，幾多憂愁，多少憧憬，多少渴望，終因悲歡離合付之東流，消得人憔悴，唯有愁緒滿心頭，幾番傷心，幾番悲情，化為煙雲飄去，人間啊！ “不堪回首月明中”。

所以要長大，要自洽，要前往千年界、萬年界、仙島群島洲，那裡，“長亭外，古道邊，芳草碧連天”，知音滿庭院，相知處處見，縱使在天涯，在海角，情滿山川，愛濤溢心田。

2010/5/12

 

 


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